Why This Happened
Love bombing to withdrawal.
Why did he go from love bombing me to pulling away completely?
He was there constantly, then suddenly gone, and your body is still trying to catch up with the switch.
That whiplash isn't confusion you created, it's your nervous system reacting to a pattern that changed overnight without warning.
You don't need to solve why he changed to start feeling steady in your own body again.
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