Why This Happened
Deactivation after "all in."
Why did he suddenly pull away after being so intensely present?
One day he's driving two hours for orange juice, the next he's gone over something fixable, and you're left holding whiplash with no explanation.
That confusion isn't you overreacting. It's your nervous system trying to make sense of safety that vanished overnight.
That response deserves care, not more analysis of him.
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